How to tell if a married man is in love with you

Have you ever noticed that a married man is putting so much attention to you? The extremely kind workmate who always waits for you when having lunch? The yoga guy who seems to be more interested in talking with you than meditating?

In this article, we are going to talk about how to be sure about a married man being in love with you, tips and tricks to correctly reading those signs and situations.

How to tell if a married man is in love with you

Ok, so maybe a married man is falling in love with you. This is a delicate situation, where you should act spontaneously but conscious. Nobody wants to get involved in the middle of a couple´s love storm.

Since 50% of marriages end in splitting, it´s not unfrequent to see situations involving a married man flirting with a third person. In many cases, the infidelity is one of the reasons for the breakup.

If you are in this kind of situation, this post is going to explain the keys to understanding married man´s behavior.  Check the next lines of text and figure out if this person is really into you, or you are getting into false expectations.

The first thing I want to say is that, as I always do, is that every man is a different world. I will generalize, and I will comment on the characteristics that are often repeated and that will give you the clues to know if he is into you. Once we cleared this, is important to remember that the man you are thinking about is a complex human being, and, despite my advice, no one better than you can read the signals about what’s in his mind.

The looking: eyes never lie

The first sign, the most evident and shared is if he looks at you.

If he looks at you, if he’s watching you and you notice that he does not look away, he’s very likely to have an interest in you.

Then the context also influences, because I may look at you because you are doing something in particular that interests him and could look at you as any other person.

So the next step would be to look at how he is looking at you because the vast majority of them are abstracted when they see a woman they are attracted to.

The crossing: strange encounters very often

Another of the signs that you can interpret as a man falling in love with you is if it comes about subtly and as fortuitous, as, crossing with you. If he useS that meeting to tell you anything or make any comments, that signal would be much more evident.

Keep in mind that when a man comes to talk to you, it is because, in principle, he feels interested and curious about you.

And in case you already have contact with that man, if he likes you, chances are he will be interested in and, of course, that he wants to do things with you and invite you to go out or take something someday, informal.

Listens to you -more than usual-

Men -in general- are not so much into this listening to girls thing. They use to be selfish, a little arrogant and concerned about their own things. This changes when they like a woman.  That’s when they start caring about her, listening to her problems and offering for help.

If you notice he starts to care about your life more than usual, maybe its a sign of attraction.

Special attention

You can also look at whether he pays particular attention to you when you talk, whether he is attentive to your needs, whether he tries to please you or to attract your attention with small jokes or making you laugh. If you notice he doesn’t treat you like the others, you should read it as a sign of interest.

Non-verbal language, non-lying language

Another thing that is interesting is to pay attention to is in non-verbal language.

Men who are attracted to you will tend to keep their back straight and straight as you, pull their chest slightly and lean their body toward you when talking to you.

It isn´t another thing as “playing the macho man” in front of you, trying to communicate you their “manhood”  to get you interested in them.

Eager of physical contact

Both men and women will try to approach the other person when it attracts us physically, and if he is attracted to you, it is more likely that you subtly touch the hand, the arm, the knee or may gently pull the hair away from your face.

Gazing your lips

One of the clearest signs of attraction is the impossibility of avoiding to look at the other person´s lips. As primitive as always, our brain focuses on the target of our deepest desires, and, when we are into another person, lips are one of the most popular targets of our mind.

If you notice that he stares at your lips more than usual, it might mean he would like to have a taste of you!

Hiding the ring: the indisputable sign

If you see the tan line of a wedding ring on his finger, you can be sure he is not interested in you to know he is married. You should be sure that he is hiding it from you because once you get this right, you can be sure he is into you for real. To double check this, you can stalk his Facebook photos in search of the missing ring. If he is wearing it in the most recent ones, its sure he is hiding it on purpose.

Avoids to talk about his marriage

If you don´t know he is married, he is going to hide it as much as possible. On the other hand, if you already know he has a partner, he is going to avoid talking about it if he is interested in you. On the opposite situation, you know he looks you as a friend when he opens to you and tells you his couple´s issues.

His friends start to make signs

This is maybe one of the easiest ways to know if a man is into you for real. If he had talked with his friends about it, they are going to leave you signs of it, maybe more evident signs than a married man could do.

If his friends start to make fun of him when you are in the room, or you start to get more attention of his buddies, it may mean they want you to notice how their friend likes you.

How to tell if a married man likes you

Want to figure it out by yourself? This is your moment to take action.

Try these methods and check his reaction:

  • Ask him to do something outside work time: if he says yes, its probably thinking about second intentions.
  • Make physical contact and see his reaction: a simple gesture with your hand, body or head and his reaction will tell you more than you can imagine.
  • Look how he listens to you when you are talking: sometimes, when a man is in love with you, it´s impossible for him to pay attention to anything else when you are talking.
  • Stare at his eyes and watch what he does: if he is a shy guy, you´d see in his eyes. If he is confident and stares at you too, you can read his look easily.
  • If you like him, ask him for a date: why not? Maybe he is wishing it and doesn´t know how to say to you. In the worst case scenario, you´ll have cleared the doubts.

And within all of these tips that I have given you, the main advice is not to get carried away by one of these signs by itself. There should be a set of these to be read as signs of a married man likes you.

¿Have you ever been in this kind of situation? ¿How did you handled the situation? Tell us your experiences, we will be so glad to read your stories!