{"id":589,"date":"2016-07-11T15:59:07","date_gmt":"2016-07-11T15:59:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.amoramargo.com\/en\/?p=589"},"modified":"2018-08-28T12:47:35","modified_gmt":"2018-08-28T12:47:35","slug":"how-to-approach-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.amoramargo.com\/en\/how-to-approach-women\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Approach Women: Best Ways To Approach Girls"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You need to understand that a woman is not seduced by your muscles, your money, your success, your adventurous spirit, your jokes or your job position. The thing that allows you seduce women is the way you use any of those things, in case that you have one or more of those attributes. If you don\u2019t, don\u2019t worry. There are many techniques and tips on how to approach girls, and any man can use it with or without previous experience.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-591 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.amoramargo.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/How-To-Approach-Women.jpg\" alt=\"How To Approach Women\" width=\"340\" height=\"334\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.amoramargo.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/How-To-Approach-Women.jpg 340w, https:\/\/www.amoramargo.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/How-To-Approach-Women-300x295.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.amoramargo.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/How-To-Approach-Women-24x24.jpg 24w, https:\/\/www.amoramargo.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/How-To-Approach-Women-36x36.jpg 36w, https:\/\/www.amoramargo.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/How-To-Approach-Women-48x48.jpg 48w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 340px) 100vw, 340px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You have to believe in you. Every man has something that makes him different from others, something that gives you an advantage in the game of love. So, you just need to find out what that thing is, use it for your own benefit and to conquer women.<\/p>\n<h2>The best way to approach a girl is during the daytime<\/h2>\n<p>The game during the day is one of the best, much better than at nighttime. This basically means that it is easier to approach girls and having a conversation with them during the daytime, in a bookshop, waiting for the bus or at the supermarket, for example.<\/p>\n<h3>Why is it better during the day?<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>At night, women have their defenses very high because they know that many men are going to talk to them. This helps them to increase their ego, as many men beg for their attention.<\/li>\n<li>During daytime, they don\u2019t expect to be approached by strangers and their reaction is often of surprise and generally pretty positive. <strong>Only 1% of men approach girls during the day<\/strong>, and that makes you more valuable to her eyes. You have already make a difference among other men.<\/li>\n<li>At night, in bars or pubs, women are on high alert and most of the times they\u2019ll be surrounded by their group of friends, a difficult barrier to trespass.<\/li>\n<li>And of course, there are not only friends around but other potential lovers. Men that are taller, richer, more handsome and more seductive than you. All these things work against you and your intentions on how to approach a girl you like.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>How can be overcome all these difficulties at nightclubs?<\/p>\n<p>Pretty easy: <strong>learn how to approach random girls during the daytime<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2>Best way to approach a girl<\/h2>\n<p>There is not only ONE best way to approach a girl you like. Instead of this, there are many tips that you may follow in order to be successful in the art of seduction. Remember that approaching a girl is the first step!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Avoid stereotypes<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe your best pal has an infallible technique to approach girls, and it never fails (or at least that\u2019s what he says). He learned it from TV, so it must be true, you may think. But you need to understand that if something works for some people, it doesn\u2019t mean it has to work with you at all. Some guys defend that the <strong>best way to approach a girl you like<\/strong> is by making her laugh. But what if you don\u2019t know any joke? Maybe this technique is not for you! Others may use very fancy clothes, but what if you don\u2019t feel comfortable with them?<\/p>\n<p>Find your own way!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do not use the same expressions or pick-up lines as other men<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need a script that teaches you how to approach women. If she is stunningly beautiful she has probably heard all the typical pick-up lines you can think of, such us \u201cWhat is a girl like you doing in a place like this?\u201d or \u201cDo you study or work?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Try to find something more original, whether romantic, funny or nerd \u2013that depends on you and the kind of girl you wanna reach. Make her hear something different and you\u2019ll have her attention.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Overall, be self-confident<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The game of approaching a girl that you fancy (as a girlfriend or just one-night stand) starts from the moment that you enter in her visual field (o she enters into yours). Until you talk to her there are many things you need to take into account so you don\u2019t mess up all the seduction technique. Probably, even before you say your first word, she has already decided to give you an opportunity or to politely reject you.<\/p>\n<p>Why did she make that decision without knowing you? Well, it is easy: <strong>body language<\/strong>. Everything that you physically show to her tells how self-confident, decided and adventurous you are. For example, your reaction when she looked at you, your facial expression, your smile or your way of walking.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Try to have a good time \u2013even if you are rejected!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Did you know that the creators of the successful game \u201cAngry Birds\u201d was the result of a big series of previous failures? The developers were almost broke and this was their last chance. So, even if their previous projects were rejected, they kept trying with illusion. So, the same happens when you try to figure out how to approach girls: take a rejection as a part of the process.<\/p>\n<p>The point is that you must have a great time flirting with girls and learn why things didn\u2019t work out so next time you don\u2019t make the same mistake. Relax and enjoy the moment: everything is easier than you think!<\/p>\n<h2>How to approach random girls on the street?<\/h2>\n<p>When you see a beautiful woman that instantly attracts you and you want to approach her, just go. Yes, walk to her directly in her direction with no hesitation. You must walk with confidence, with your head up, parallel to the ground. Keep your back straight and make sure that your body position is secure and strong.<\/p>\n<p>That is how your first encounter should be. Once you are in front of her, keep the attitude: you need to break the ice by saying something:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Funny<\/li>\n<li>Interesting (at least for her)<\/li>\n<li>Focused on her (if you know her a bit, something she likes; if she is a random girl, something she is wearing)<\/li>\n<li>That doesn\u2019t really show your interest in her<\/li>\n<li>That makes you like a funny guy without fear of laughing about himself<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>One of the biggest mistakes that men do when approaching women is that they talk too much about themselves. So, if you do the opposite and let her talk about her passions, her interests, her hobbies, her plans, her feelings or her past, you are already in advantage, because you are generating empathy from the very beginning.<\/p>\n<p>And never forget that this encounter must end with a phone number! Otherwise, you can\u2019t go to the next level.<\/p>\n<h2>How to approach women: DON\u2019TS.<\/h2>\n<p>So, as always, there are certain things that one man should never do \u2013or avoid as much as he can- when trying to find the best way to approach a girl. Pay attention!<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Don\u2019t be negative. Do not criticize, do not judge, and do not say sad things. People, girls and boys, they all want to have a good time, laugh and enjoy the moment.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t be presumptuous. Don\u2019t show off about yourself, your job, your money or your belongings. \u00a0If you are that great don\u2019t tell her, she\u2019ll discover it by herself.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t say bad things about other people: this shows your inferiority complex.<\/li>\n<li>Never, ever, ever badmouth your ex-girlfriends. If you do so, she may think you\u2019ll talk behind her back if things don\u2019t go well between you two.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t say that you don\u2019t like kids or pets. Women try to find men (most of the times unconsciously) that would perfectly fit as a father and a husband. So shut up.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t show any lack of respect towards her for being a woman. This includes sexist comments, actions or jokes: it will make you look like a fool.<\/li>\n<li>Do not flatter her all the time, because she\u2019ll be tired of it if you do it too often. A compliment once in a while is good, but if you exaggerate it won\u2019t be any longer attractive, just sickeningly sweet.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t be rude. If you want to say something nice to her about her, try to talk about her eyes, her mouth, her intelligence or her sense of humor.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t say goodbye, leave your number and tell her to call you. She won\u2019t do it. Ask her phone number and call her right there so she has yours on her phone. Don\u2019t be surprised if she calls you first!<\/li>\n<li>Never say that you like her on your first date: that\u2019s for beginners! This is a typical mistake that many men do, as they get very excited and they cannot control their emotions towards the girl that is in front of them. Please, play it cool and say \u201cI love you\u201d when she accepts to be your girlfriend, not before!<\/li>\n<li>Never make her think that you doubt on anything that she says or anything related to her \u2013even if you are really doubting!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You need to understand that a woman is not seduced by your muscles, your money, your success, your adventurous spirit, your jokes or your job position. The thing that allows you seduce women is the way you use any of those things, in case that you have one or more of those attributes. If you don\u2019t, don\u2019t worry. There are many techniques and tips on how to approach girls, and any man can use it with or without previous experience. You have to believe in you. 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