Is she looking at you in a sexy way or does your hair look weird this morning? Is she winking at you or is it just a tic? Whether you believe it or not, there are certain signs a girl likes you. Yes, women can be complicated, but they are human after all. So if you want to know if she is into you, or at least, if she is a little interested, pay attention to these 25 amazing and unmistakable signs that she wants you.
Top 25 signs she likes you
She (slightly) touches you
Out of a sudden, she touches your arm, grabs your hand, puts your shirt right, or –wait for it- she even touches your leg with HER leg. Well, we need to say that it means she wants to be closer to you –now it’s your job to figure out if she’s a one night stand or the love of your life. Don’t waste this clear opportunity! But also, do not make a mistake and try to differ an accidental touch from those made intentionally…
She is always in a good mood…
She smiles, she looks happy all the time. Especially when you are around. Your jokes make her laugh (are you sure you are that funny?) and she has a good time hanging with you. Well, they say “happy wife, happy life”, right? This is just the beginning!
… and if she is not, she openly shares her feelings with you
Of course, nobody can be happy 24/7! It doesn’t mean she is not happy with you. Maybe she is worried about friends, family, exams or work… if she feels relaxed with you, she may share her problems and seek for your comfort. But be careful, you may enter the friendzone…
Too many coincidences
If a girl likes you, she’ll find out how to “randomly” run into you. Are you about to enter to the cinema and she is there? Do you come across her on your way to college? Is she suddenly drinking some beers with her friends at your favorite bar? Be suspicious, it cannot be a coincidence all the time! Also, be aware of a possible stalker!
She directly stares at you (don’t freak out with this one!)
If she is a bold woman, she will stare at you, probably in a seductive way. In this case, and especially if you are interested too, you MUST act cool. Try not to get nervous and look at her, smile and ask her out. This is one of the clearest signs, don’t miss it!
She touches her hair in an especial way
This is a tricky one, as all girls are touching and fixing their hair ALL THE TIME –and it doesn’t mean that they all want to be your gf. It is an automatic movement in 99% of the times, but there is a 1% with a particular meaning: shaking out pheromones towards us. Please, do not start smelling her in a creepy way! Normally it is a slower movement, try to see that little percentage! It’s biology!
Her chin is towards you
Many people say that an infallible sign that a woman desires you is that she shows her neck. But it may depend on the position she is sitting, so, in fact, it is not a good sign to take into account –it can lead to very serious mistakes. Instead of that, take a look at her chin: women like to look directly if they are interested! If her chin points at you, you are earning points.
Is she playing with her feet?
When a woman or a girl is standing while talking to you, you need to pay attention to her feet – discreetly, please. If both legs are straight and inexpressive, her passion for you is far far away. Otherwise, if she is playing with her ankles or crossing one foot behind the other, she may be feeling nervous (wanna know why?)
She remembers many things from older conversations
All girls remember. Everything. They never forget a single detail. If she is interested in you, she will know even the first time you talked, your first encounter, what is your favorite food, how many brothers or sisters do you have, which is your shoe number and so on. And she doesn’t need to be your girlfriend to know all that (yet)! She may know more thing from you than yourself. Are you ready?
She doesn’t feel intimidated by your contact
When a girl feels comfortable with a man –fathers, best friends or gay friends do not count-, it means more than it looks at first sight. Normally women are supposed to be careful with whom they are with, so if she looks relaxed even if you are in her space, it is a good signal! Try to be closer and closer with patience and care.
She tells you (maybe too often) where she is going to hang out
“This is my favorite pub, I go there every Wednesday after class”; “Tonight I’ll be at ______ with my friends”; “Friday night I will go to that concert”… Well, she clearly wants you to know where she is going to be, so you may appear there. So maybe it is time for you to decide if you want to join her plans or not!
Her friends look at you in a very analyzing way
Oh yes, a girl and her group of friends. Nothing to fear, we promise. They can be your best allies –also your worst enemies, and of course, they are the signs a girl likes you. Do they look at you all the time? Do you constantly feel analyzed? Do they ask very personal questions? They want to know if you’re the one for their girl! Make sure you are the kindest man on Earth and they will open the doors for you. Earn their trust!
Pay attention to social media!
Nowadays, social media is the axis of our lives. So, in order to understand her, you may pay attention to what she does: does she like and comment ALL your pictures, even the old ones? Does she post some “suspicious” lyrics? Does she upload pictures with you or jokes you made together? If the answer is YES, you know that something is going on…
She tries to make you jealous
We have to recognize that this one is a bit crazy. But in order to know if you like her too, a girl may make you jealous by laughing, touching and talking to other guys while you are looking to her, or she may talk about other boys to you. Yeah, it’s twisted… but she is testing you. Be careful, don’t panic, don’t be scared and don’t show an extreme jealousy. Just be yourself. If you are getting a bit mad, let her know, don’t keep it to yourself! (in fact, she may be expecting that)
She tries to make you pay attention (hi, I’m here, look at me!)
Ok, maybe she won’t say that (she would look like a little girl), but for sure she will make you know that she is there, in the same room as you. Maybe she’ll make some “accidental noise”, or she will laugh too loud with a friend. Her goal is always the same: be noticed by you! Will you pay attention to her as well or will you ignore her movements?
Blushing is a clear signal
We have talked about bold girls before, but maybe this girl in particular is very shy. So if you want to know if she wants to be your gf, you have to pay attention to her nervousness. Quick movements, tremors, babbling or blushing are clear signs that she likes you.
Is she making compliments to you, even if she says “it’s just a joke”?
She says that those jeans fit you well, or that your new haircut is very sexy, or that you look amazing today… Well man, that’s a clear sign that she likes you. No matter if she says “just kidding” afterward… the truth has been revealed.
She’ll try to contact you even if it is not strictly necessary
How to tell if a woman likes you? Well, she’ll let you know by appearing in all your devices at any time, it doesn’t need to be an important thing, it may be the silliest comment. Facebook chat? She’s there telling you what just happened in class. Whatsapp notification? Her face shows up telling you a new chain joke…
She accepts all your invitations…
If you have made a step asking her to join your friends, to go for a beer, to see a movie or to go running… and every time you propose something she says YES, it is because she wants to spend time next to you, getting to know you better and… who knows what else?
..and she’ll propose plans for you
On the other way round, she will invite you to do any kind of activity. If she is very open and extrovert, she’ll directly go with you alone, but if she is a bit shy, she’ll manage to make plans with more people and make you join them.
She’ll try to know you better
Maybe she directly asks you, or to your friends, or she will sneak into your Facebook history, but she’ll know you everything she wants about you: from your shoe number to the name of your ex-girlfriends. She also may join a hobby you enjoy so you can spend more time together doing something you like. Or she might start watching the kind of movie you like, even if she doesn’t know a lot about them! The same happens with music, books and many other things… pay attention!
She’ll always look pretty! (or at least, she’ll try to)
Girls know how to get attention, and even that intelligence and sense of humor is very important, the first sight is what counts. And also the second, the thirds and the fourth sight. She knows that, so she’ll always be with makeup on, well dressed, neat, smelling like heaven and with a gorgeous hair. Do you think she is just like that with everybody? We don’t think so!
Little presents, little details (but BIG signs!)
We are more used to see a girl receiving a present, but, come on! This is the 21st century and equality is supposed to reach all levels, especially man/woman relationships. So, a modern girl might give you little presents for your birthday or for any little success, such as getting a driving license or passing the final exams. The reason is just an excuse!
She tries to be nice to your friends (even the dumbest one)
Sometimes your group of friends can be annoying, childish, rude and impolite. You know that, they know that and yes, she knows that. If she is really into you, she will try to get closer to them, to be nice and laugh at their jokes (also the dirty ones). Don’t be ashamed of your friends! On the contrary, you’re lucky if the girl gets along with them, so you don’t have to choose!
Is she imitating you?
Since we are babies, we learn from our environment, imitating our parents and beloved ones. When we are teenagers, we imitate the way of talking of the most popular kid in high school, and our clothes are mainly the same as our music idols. So, here comes the revelation: when we feel attracted to someone we imitate them without even noticing it. Now you have the advantage, so pay attention and test her: touch your hair, put your hand on the table, scratch your arm… is she doing it as well?